The designer will advise you as to the quality level of the merchandise that will meet your scope and budget criteria. Many of us have “champagne taste and a beer pocketbook.” You must be realistic. It will serve you well to be truthful about the total budget as well as the starting budget.  You can do a large job in affordable stages.  When a “significant other” is involved in the budgeting for new furnishings, get his/her input before you give a budget to the designer. Be sure your expectations do not exceed your budget. The designer, you, and your significant other are your “Team”

Tell the designer about the way you want to use the space, the people you expect to have in the space, and what activities are to take place there. If you have seen rooms that appealed to you, discuss them with your designer. If you have seen pictures in magazines that appeal to you, clip them out and show them to your “team.” Remember, some things that you have seen in another home or in a magazine may not translate will into your space because of differences in the size of the rooms, location of the openings, lighting conditions, etc. Your design professional will guide you.

In some cases, the partner may wish only to exert “veto” power. Getting this person involved early on seems to reduce the frustration of having the teams effort vetoed. The people involved in a design project have different tastes, priorities and even values. Using good communication skills, the designer can bridge such differences by prioritizing and by recognizing the needs of each individual involved.

Do not feel intimidated by the designer; listen to the professional advice and then make your decision. Once you and your designer have found something you like, do not vacillate. Your first selection is often the best one for you. Remember that the professional Interior Designer makes his or her living helping you to formulate creative solutions for your project. The art of design must incorporate all the elements and items within a contiguous area. Avoid the temptation to “brain pick” the designer or to ask a professional designer for “minor help.” Such a request is much like asking a doctor to treat only part of an illness. It does not work well for either party and compromises a good working relationship.

It is the task of the professional interior designer to view your world through your eyes and generate ideas and solutions that will effect the way you, your family and your guests use and enjoy your home. Mutual respect is in order, as it is in all good relationships.